my mother was taking a lot of leave to take care her but from what i had seen, my grandma did not appreciate at all what my mother had done for her. she was acting like a child who was just born, need to suap her eat, then eat so little only (stubbornly don't want to eat), and when questioning her time, she did not want to answer it (purposely did). isn't she like a child and bring trouble to my mother because everyone is blaming on my mother for not giving her eat especially my worst ever father. he only knows how to blame on people but he never even care what is going on and understand it. when my grandma's sons and daughters came to see her, she can talk a lot to them. isn't it was so obvious that she did not like and did not appreciate what my mother did for her? it is really pissed me off. i don't and never mean to be rude but think of other people's feelings also. i really pity my mother. she can easily get tension and stress.
how many times she was admitted to hospital? well, not more than ten (around 5-6 times) but then how many leaves that my mother took to take care of her in the hospital? couldn't even count by hands and legs. some more my mother stayed overnight there with no comfortable bed to sleep on and must eat the hospital food also just to look after you. appreciate people!! but yet she still acting like that. they said old people is like that but this is over and too much!
the most worst thing is that all of her 2 daughters and 3 sons do not want to look after her. my mother is just her in-law.why is it so unfair and give all the responsibility to my mother, mentang-mentang because she stayed with us for all the long? so is it us the one that need to sacrifice everything just to take care of her? what are your responsibilities as a daughther or son? where did they go? we only have one mother in this life. you should appreciate her while she is still alive.
huh? i hate it!
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